How to Scientifically Improve your Flirting

The Science Behind Flirting Better

We are genetically programmed to flirt.  It is a basic instinct: if we don't flirt, we don't have sex.  Without sex we cannot reproduce and we are doomed.

There are six points that we can keep in mind to flirt better with women.

1. Eye contact

Eye contact or copulatory Stare is the most important part of flirting.  Keeping good eye contact with your partner makes her feel that you are interested in her.  Just don't turn it into a staring contest and that is annoying.

2. Body Language

When it comes to flirting what you say is not always as important as how you appear when you say it.  One scientific study showed that only 7% of effective flirting was attributable to what we said; 38% was attributable to how we said it; and 55% was attributable to our body language.

The Webster Study of St. Lousi showed that the most effective flirters exhibited what is known as "social dominance".  This happens when we maximize our space by spreading out our arms or stretching out our legs.

3. Touching

There are three levels of touching:
-- Friendly touching like a nudge of the shoulder or a handshake;
-- Plausible deniability which includes a touch of the waist or forearm and;
-- Nuclear threat which could be a touch of the face of your partner.

Naturally, you wouldn't want to touch your partner unless they are open to the idea.

4. Body Langauge Congruence

This happens when the two people involved in flirting begin to adopt the other's posture and body language.  This show a shared harmony and a healthy rapport.

5. Use their Name

People like to hear their name used, and the effective flirter will skillfully use their partner's name.

6. Withdrawal

One of the best flirting techniques is to stop flirting and abruptly, but politely, change the tenor of the conversation  This leaves the other person wanting more.

Following these steps and you will notice a signifigant improvement in your relationship with women.

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